Therapy For Your Marriage 4

Proverbs 15:22 Without counsel purposes are disappointed: but in the multitude of counsellors they are established.

Every marriage needs one form of therapy or the other in order for it to become all that God has planned and ordained for it. This is why this series of teachings is coming your way and I hope you will find succor and healing for your marriage through it in Jesus name. This is God’s will and desire and it’s my fervent prayer for you also. So how can you know the therapy that your marriage needs? This has been the focus of our discussion for some time now and today, by the grace of God, I intend to go a step further by sharing more insight on this matter. So if you are ready for this, let’s go ahead to examine some other indicators!

INDICATORS THAT SHOWS YOUR MARRIAGE NEEDS THERAPY:

11. If you are crushing on someone else or emotionally attached to someone aside from your spouse. This is a major indicator of things not being right in your marriage and it’s something that needs urgent attention and help. In fact, if this is not properly handled, it could lead to the disintegration of the home. Dear friends, you need to be honest and sincere with yourself on this one. If this is a living reality in your marriage, then you need to get help fast before it’s too late. I pray that the mercies and grace of our Lord will speak for you in Jesus name, amen. Matt5v27-28

12. When you refuse to change your ways. Nobody can force you to change. Any meaningful change will come as a result of your own volition and cooperation. If you are the type of spouse that won’t change or is reluctant to do the needful, it’s a sign that your marriage needs help or therapy. My dear reader, if you really want to access the help of God in your life, you need to be humble and hungry. Anyone who fails to acknowledge the need to change won’t experience real transformation in their lives and marriage. Pro29v1. So what kind of person are you with regards to your changing?

13. When you find it difficult to trust one another. Trust is the foundation of any meaningful relationship. If you don’t trust each other as husband and Wife, it’s an indication that your marriage needs urgent help and counseling. Trust is very important in any relationship, especially a marital relationship. This is why it’s critical for you to be able to trust each other as a couple. Where would you place yourself when it comes to trusting your spouse? Pro31v11

14. When both of you are growing apart. As a couple, you ought to be growing together and not apart. However, if you discover this to be true in your marriage, it’s a sign that you need help. It’s important to get this help on time so as to be able to redeem the marriage. Some of the symptoms of a couple growing apart include lack of communication, not feeling connected to your partner, distance between both partners etc. Dear brothers and sisters, if this is what you are going through in your marriage, then it’s time to act fast so that the enemy will not have the upper hand in your home.

15. When you are playing the avoidance game. This can manifest in so many ways, such as i.e., spending more time at the office or the gym, trying to avoid each other as much as possible, stonewalling each other e.t.c. These are just some of the symptoms of playing the avoidance game. My dear reader, this is also one of the signs that your marriage needs therapy. God ordained marriage because both of you need one another and not the other way round. So, in the name of Jesus, anything and everything that is manifesting itself as an avoidance game in your Union is broken by the anointing today in Jesus name amen. Its time for you to begin to have honest, rich and heart-to-heart conversations with your spouse! If youre receiving this transformation today, say a big amen.

Other Scriptural references: Jb31v1: Pro6v23-29; 18v13: 2tim2v22: Jam1v19: 1pet4v8: 1cor13v7

Prayer for Today: Lord, I am embracing the change that you are bringing into my marriage today in Jesus name, amen.

CONFESSION: It’s my time for a turnaround. Its my time for a change of story. Things are turning around in my marriage for the better. By the operation of the word and spirit, I am receiving all the help and grace that I need in my marriage.