Proverbs 16verse22: ‘Understanding is a wellspring of life unto him that hath it: but the instruction of fools is folly.’

I believe that you are enjoying this series of teachings on having the right kind of understanding about marriage. The truth of the matter is that the root cause of some marriages is because of having the wrong ideas about marriage. Ps11v3. So it is my prayer and desire that these teachings will enable you to have a successful marital experience in Jesus name, amen. We have been looking at some of the wrong ideas that some people have about marriage and today’s by his grace, I will proceed in sharing more insights along these lines because I know it will help us in having the right kind of understanding.

WRONG IDEAS ABOUT MARRIAGE:

15. Jealousy is necessary for a passionate Relationship. This is a lie from the pit of hell that you need to resist vehemently if you want peace in your home. Jam4v7; Eph4v27.

16. Romance never dies for couples in love. How I wish this was true but if the truth be told, it is not so. Couples must constantly strive to spice up and work on their romantic life if things will go smoothly in this area. SOS8v6-7.

17. Everything will be easy when you find your soul mate. My dear reader, marriage is work and it is not for the lazy person. So, if you are not ready to work on your marriage, it’s better not to even marry. Philip2v13.

18. Marriage counselling should be the last resort. Marriage counselling should rather be the bedrock of your marital experience as this is one way to improve your marriage. So, learn to put the horse before the cart.

19. Your spouse is responsible for making you feel better. This is certainly not true, as you are largely responsible for making yourself happy. The power is in your hands and not the other party. So take hold of your life and peace.

20. You can change your partner. Nobody has the power to change anyone. Only God, through a divine encounter, can change anyone. So concentrate your efforts in doing your best as you pray for God’s touch upon your partner’s life. Gen30v1-2.

21. Marriage will automatically make you closer as a couple. This is not an automatic thing but it’s something that both of you work towards. Amos3v3
My dear brothers and sisters, I believe that you have gained tremendous insights and understanding from this series of teachings. May your relationship be a source of inspiration in Jesus name, amen.

Other Scriptural References: Hos4v6; Pro19v20:4v5, 7: 31v10-12; Eccle4v9-11.

Prayer for Today: I renounce every contrary idea about marriage that is not in line with God’s Word in Jesus name, amen.

CONFESSION: My relationship will never be the same again as I embrace these truths today. I receive grace and wisdom in walking out these truths. Thank you, blessed Holy Spirit, for coming to my aid and rescue in Jesus name, amen.