3. FAILURE IS NOT FOREVER
The fact that you failed does not mean it’s the end of the road for you. It doesn’t mean you won’t rise again. It doesn’t mean you are doomed forever. Your downfall does not equate to the end of your life. You will still shine again. You will still bounce back if you decide to profit from your failures.
This is the mentality you need to have. Shake off the loser’s mentality. Embrace the winner’s mentality. You need to realize that your failure is a temporary situation and not a permanent situation. You will recover again. you will blossom again. Don’t write yourself off yet. Give yourself an opportunity to succeed again by expecting the best.
4. FAILURE IS NOT YOUR ENEMY BUT YOUR FRIEND.
This may sound strange to you but the truth not the matter is that failure is not your enemy. This is because failure helps you to ultimately succeed. This is why someone defined the word FAIL as “first attempt in learning”, so failure is a teacher.
It helps you to learn many important lessons about life and yourself, so the next time you fail, don’t assume that something evil has happened to you, just see it as an opportunity to learn something new and what kind of opportunity does failure give you?
Failure gives you an opportunity to work harder, gain wisdom and develop patience. It also gives you an opportunity to look inwards, and develop maturity, but most importantly failure helps you to succeed, provided you are willing to profit from your mistakes. You need to realize that failure, repeated failures are fingerprints the road to achievement, this is why you must never give up on yourself. Get up and fight again. try again as it’s not yet over.
5. MOST PEOPLE ARE AFRAID OF FAILURE
This is the reason why a lot of people can’t look at failure in the face but honestly speaking there is nothing to be afraid of when it comes to failure because you are not the only one who experience failure, neither will you be the last, so cheer up. It’s time to deal with the fear of failure in your life. How do you achieve this? By confronting those fears.
It’s when you confront your fears, you become fearless. It’s high time you confront those secret fears that you harbor in your mind. Instead of thinking it might not work, start imagining it will work. Stop the fear and embrace the possibilities that your destiny has to offer you.
You have no business being afraid of failure once you understand what failure once you understand what failure truly means. Don’t allow the fear of failure to paralyze your life. You have a colorful destiny and may you stand out in your generation.
Yemi Adeoti is a pastor, teacher, life coach and mentor & also a prolific writer.