Proverbs 5verse 18-20: ‘V18- Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth. V19- Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love. V20- And why wilt thou, my son, be ravished with a strange woman, and embrace the bosom of a stranger?’
The subject of sexual faithfulness is a major issue in marriage and God’s grace is available to anyone willing to embrace it. Jn8v32. God would never ask us to do something that we cannot do. So the grace for sexual faithfulness is available and this is what I intend to share with you in today’s lesson. I believe that these nuggets will be of great help and assistance to you and also put you over in life. So, what are things that can help us along this line?
TIPS FOR SEXUAL FAITHFULNESS:
1. Be honest with your partner. Honesty is still the best policy and you can’t build anything lasting on lies and hypocrisy. Rom12v9; Pro20v27.
2. Keep intimacy present.Pro5v15
3. Tell your spouse how you feel. It is important to always express how you feel to your partner.
4. Be kind to your partner.Eph4v32
5. Watch your other relationships. Pay attention to the other relationships in your life, so that you should always invest more time and attention in your relationship with your spouse.
6. Control flirty behaviour.1Cor9v27
7. Don’t take your partner for granted. Always value and treat them very well.
8. Work out your problems together. Amo3v3.
9. Think before you ask. At times we forget to always abide by this principle but it will surely help you in clarifying things and making a better decision.
10. Understand there will be Lulls. When it happens, you need to be wise and discreet in doing what is needed so that you can be on top of the situation. Pro4v5, 7.
This is where I will be drawing the curtains today. Kindly join me for the continuation of this series. Thanks!
Other Scriptural References: Pro5v18-20: 7v1-27: 14v1.
Prayer for Today: I decree that Satan will have no place in my home in Jesus’ name, amen.
CONFESSION: I will give no place for Satan in my home and, most importantly, in my sexuality. I receive grace to be faithful to my partner. I receive grace to remain faithful to my spouse all the days of my life. This is my solemn vow and declaration in Jesus’ name, amen.
Yemi Adeoti is a pastor, teacher, life coach and mentor & also a prolific writer.
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